i going to have surgery to get rid or fibroids,i want to have more kids plus my menstrual is at an unbelievable heavy flow,causing me to be anemic. I am going to be cut,similiar to a cesarean,what should i expect in regards of pain and healing?

When I lie flat on my back, there is a bulge as big as a grapefruit below my belly button and I missed 2 periods in the last year.

yes I mean vicodin and would this hurt the baby and her

I have a 3cm fibroid tumor and am ttc, When my doc told me about it she asked if i wanted anymore children i told her yes, all she could say was do it now. I am always in a lot of pain not shure if i should get it removed right now or after i have a baby.