Tuesday, August 16th, 2011 at
7:28 am
I am a fifty-four year old, post menopausal mother of two. The first time I had my mystery pain I was in my late thirties and there was a several year gap following that first occurrence. The pain is a hot stabbing pain I assumed on or by the right ovary. It was often triggered by exercise but rarely occurred more than once a year. Then, about six years ago suddenly the pain started to happen more frequently, often triggered by brisk walking usually uphill.
When the attacks would happen I’d have to stand still or lie down for several minutes until the attack passed and if I tried to move during that period of time it would make it worse. As time has gone by, it started happening after every orgasm. Then it grew to during some bowel movements as well, then it began to happen right before the orgasm. As well, I’ve had it very occasionally happen in which I am doing nothing and it just suddenly occurs.
This past Monday, my dad passed away quite suddenly and the moment I began to sob that as well triggered an attack.
I have been to numerous doctors to try and figure out what this is with no answers. I have had internal camera that showed nothing, ultra sound in which every looked fine, cat scan that showed nothing, colonoscopy that gave no answers. My first gynecologist, a male, said I had a fibroid and dismissed it as nothing. When I moved to a female, she said that the fibroid was not sitting on the right ovary and therefore was not a reason for the pain.
Every doctor I have been to either dismisses what I say or their tests show nothing. I know I’m not insane, my children and husband have witnessed the attacks and been afraid by the visible pain that I was in. The only reason I have never gone to the ER is that the attacks only last five minutes and by the time I would even get there, the pain would be gone and I did not want to be dismissed by another doctor.
This pain is heavily affecting my life and my marriage as it is hard to be unable to have sex with my own husband, to take a healthy walk without being afraid of getting an attack, and to be afraid to even have a bowel movement.
Any answers or similar situations would be greatly appreciated because my doctors don’t listen to what I say and I no longer know what to do. I’d love even suggestions of what kind of doctor to see because everywhere I’ve gone they tell me I appear normal and something is definitely wrong.
The doctors have confirmed that it is not caused by the fibroid for me.